Hey folks….. My LIFE story may seems to you all like a FAIRY TALE… but let me tell u it’s not. It’s a REAL LIFE STORY of a girl… who was brought up by a SINGLE MOTHER…..
Here I am to tell you the real story……. My mom is a Great Lady whom I love more then anyone in this Entire World…she is everything to me… despite everything that has happened to me, I am greatful for having a mother like mine… who cared n loved me so much… avoiding all the gossips of the cruel world…… She was a beautiful n charming girl with a Nightingale’s voice… I at times wonder if she was sent straight from Heaven to apply her talents in this Universe….. Am I boring you? well let me make the story short… she started her singing carrier as a female vocalist since she was 7 years old and used to perform in the  musical concerts in the various places with her bands…. as and then she grew up to a Teenager… and guess what she met her Dream Prince, he was also a member from her band…. he used to perform as a male vocalist…. and they fell in LOVE… it was a pure n true love of teenage… without any expectations from each other…. just LOVE and only LOVE…. Love was all around them…. so the years passed… they decided to bond in a relationship as a husband and wife…. then they ran away from their families and started their new life… because they knew that their parents would never agree with the decisions they made… as they were from different Community and Casts…… the time went by,… my mother conceived me… on knowing this, her husband said he would talk to his parents about it… and left her and went to meet his parents….. alas never to return…..
He ran away to another place… then my mother started to hunt for him everywhere she could without any luck… she could not find him anywhere…. and she could not go to his parents house too coz’ she had married their son against their wish…. so a Helpless lady went back to her own parents house saying that she was ditched by the man whom she loved and cared more than any one else in the world.. she wasn’t welcomed so well by her family too but she had no where to go… she started living with her family……… her delivery time came nearer and nearer… her family started to care for her more and every one in that family waited for the baby’s coming… but she was treated badly by the people in her neighbourhood and also her relatives as she was giving birth to a fatherless baby.. when she was in a great need. when she wanted him to be by her side at every single moment for those nine months, he wasn’t there for her, she was so helpless, emotionally he was wrought but that was her personal grief that was why she didn’t gave a damn to the people and their loud mouth… those days were like a Nightmare for her but… finally the day arrived…..on a rainy day of July… she was taken to the hospital in her own small town… then after a long period of pain… she gave birth to a baby girl on July 22,… she was so happy to see the baby who was healthy… and from that day her New Life started…. then she was a none working lady, as she had to stop her singing carrier also in the period of nine months when she was carrying a baby…….. but now the baby was looked after by her grand parents (mother’s Family) who loved her a lot and was taken care like a flower though they were not so well off….she was from a middle class family…. so, when the baby was 3-4 years old, she started going to school where her mother could afford it… Her mother gave her initials of her own…the baby didn’t even knew who her father was… she used to call her grandpa- baba and garndma- aama, and she used to call her mother Mummy…… and one day one of her cousin aunt told her that she had no father… and the person whom she calls Baba, he is her mother’s dad, not hers’ and also mentioned the fact that her father had left her when she was in her mother’s womb… the incident took place when she was about eight years old… she was so frustrated… but she didn’t ask her mother anything because she didn’t want to hurt her mother…and then she started to hunt for the man who had left her mother and ran away… but the poor girl had not even seen his picture nor had she heard his name …the little girl was desperate beyond measures…. a year went by in a tensed mood. her grand parents wanted her mother to get re-married and give the baby girl.. her father’s name… but the Great lady wasn’t ready, but with the force of her families and relatives….and she had to take that step once again after 10 years from her broke up marriage…. then the Real Life started for the Lady who had faced so many obstacles and hurdles in those 10 years of her Life…. she found such a gentle man…. who it seemed like was sent down by the Almighty God straight from Heaven for them…. the girl got the father who loved her more than his own child…she got her family and love of a father for she was longing for so long,… and after few years her mother gave birth to a baby boy…as her younger brother…the girl loved him so much and again after a year she gave birth to another baby boy…. then they became 5 in the family… though her step- father received the gifts of two baby boys from her mother of his own…. he never stopped loving and caring for the girl ever….. and then she became teenager and went to collage…. and started working to do something for her family though they didn’t expect anything from her…. she went abroad to work… where she worked for an Indian family.. though she was qualified… she had no support to get into some respected job… but she was happy to work for them… they treated her as family member and she worked for them for almost a year and a half, saved every penny and bought a plot for her parents as a gift and she moved to another country as she wasn’t making sufficient money to do more for her family and she started making more money and she bought a car and a big Dream House for her parents… now she is 24 years old…. after such a long period of gap she happened to know that her own Father is still alive and doing well, has his own happy family with two sons, who are 22 and 17 years old…. so it means, that man didn’t care to wait even for couple of years to get back to his first wife. who was carrying his blood in her womb and he ditched her and ran away and got re-married and started his New Fresh Life…. he dared to do all this coz’ he knew that no one will point their finger to him coz’ he is a MAN you know… and can never be wrong and hence never answerable to anyone, but the poor lady was not to be treated similarly… who was left behind in the mouth of the people like COBRAS, ready to bite her any moment….
Then one day… the girl met a man who was so brotherly to her and gave her so much respects and love.. cared for her… then she told him and his wife about her life story and the man was so furious and from the very first day… he started looking for the clue to reach that girl’s real father and eventually succeed to achieve his goal…. he found out where the real father of that girl was living and also his phone no… then he made her talk to him… the day was the 6th of December 06′ that girl was talking to her own father for the first time in her Life and she asked Him lots of questions related to her Mother and he answered to all of her questions and finally he asked her who she is???? And she answered him that she is a daughter of that lady whom he had ditched 24 years ago…. he got the shock of his life… as it was almost a Nightmare to him… but he accepted that he was the Father…. then the conversations went on and on for hours… and both of them ended up crying… the girl had lived with the hate for her father for so long and she really wanted to meet him one day and fight with him and end the relationship…. but it didn’t happen like that…. she couldn’t do as she had planned… as Heartless as her Father… she had all the good qualities of her Great Mother and her golden Heart capable of forgiveness…. then father started calling her every single day and spoke to her for hour and hour… then he told his present wife about the girl and he managed to convinced her… he made the girl speak to his present wife.. who was such a nice lady…. and she spoke to her step brothers too… they accepted her warm heartedly…. so, the story of the girl went on… and she finally achieved her Precious Dream of her Life…. but if there ever came a time when she had to choose between two of her fathers.. she would definitely go for her Step father… coz as there is saying….”Janma diney bhanda Karma diney thuloo”…. but she still hasn’t meet her real father in person till now… let’s see when the time comes.. when is God’s will for her to meet her Father in real…… so I would like to suggest the people,…. do the right thing, no one will dare to stop you…. do as your heart says…… and you’ll achieve your goal one fine day…though it’s late….you’ll be the ultimate winner……
– Chori
COMMENTS / FEEDBACKS…..
You must be so lucky to have mother like her.. Let me salute ur mother.. I really admire her.. despite all the situation n luck she grew u up in single stand. She is a brave women I have ever seen in my life…. Say my heartily regards to ur mother.. Mother u are da best… u are all in one mother I love u…….. Once again I salute u mother. Regards claxy
–Claxy Sharma, London, UK
Hi, I read this story I liked very much. This story touched my heart.
–Milan sharma, R.K.Gulf, Qatar
Hey, this story touched my heart….
–Kanchan Ghimire
Well done recess team. U should improve slightly. It is designed creatively. You published an article without author, “MY LIFE WAS LIKE A BIG WAVE…BUT HAS MADE THE TURNING POINT AT LAST”. Who wrote this nice story? I appreciate & salute her. In real, to believe someone is a starting point of broken life…
–Ashlesha Sharma, Birmingham, UK
Special feedback to … “My life was like a big wave but has made the turning point at last”….. Hey everybody…!! It’s a story which challenges the cruel world. This story is written by tears. Like a drama… the author meets a turning point at last. It’s very interesting…. This is a story of a great mum & her golden daughter. Pls write after your turning point too. Thanks to recesscafe team.
–Romee Shrestha, Lalitpur-14, Satdobato, Nepal
I found very nice site. This cafe is wonderful. I appreciate this creative team of youngsters…….
I saw all your articles. Among them a story of a brave lady impressed me. It’s really a story of a big wave. MY LIFE WAS LIKE A BIG WAVE.. is a strong story of two generations of two brave ladies.
Please write more about yourself…..
–Kritika Basnet, Kathmandu. Currently at: Sidney, Australia
It’s a very nice site. Articles are also fine. In u-turn, there are two effective columns. First, story of a mother & her daughter…. MY LIFE WAS A BIG WAVE…. which represents the sentiments of our surroundings. It touches everybody’s heart. Hey friends..!! pls learn from this article…
In next, there is a picture of king Gyanendra who should begin by learning to put on his shoes. He earned 37,385 times higher than a citizen last year. It proves how kingship is making our country dry. Pls provide more informations about him.
–Prakash Chetry, London, United Kingdom
One of my friend referred me to watch your very nice site. It is designed very creatively. Nepal is my best place & I love it. This cafe keeps Nepal with us.
…Among your articles 2 are pointed. About Nepal’s king who earns thousands times more than his poor people. Next, a story of a girl in generation… “MY LIFE LIKE WAS A BIG WAVE” this story touched me. In fact, she should fight against this all…
–Tshusima Kanjee, Tokyo, Japan
Thanks recesscafe for you appreciative job. But it’s a kind of boring ? cafe without coffee yaar.. haha.. just kidding. Well, I am very glad to read the wonderful article “Life was like a big wave…”. The writer has really presented the article in an interesting way also; I am very touched by this article. Well done!! Keep on writing- do all the best. You are the great writer and let us have opportunities to read this kind of articles in the coming days too.
–Tas Gurung, War Zone
Wow!!! Recesscafe is a wonderful website. I appreciate this team. I love this site. All articles & columns are fine…. & design is also very nice. …this cafe without coffee proves.. Nepalese youth do a lot for Nepal.. At last I should write something about one column… MY LIFE WAS LIKE A BIG WAVE….. I want to know who is that great chori.. I got power to strive more.. This nice site.. is really a great cafe of Nepalese youth..
–Prem Agrawal, Guang Zhou, China
Great Chori, your article ‘My life was like a big wave..’, a real life story, is really a heart touching. Your great mom was not single, u were with her. Due to your golden heart capable of forgiveness made u great too. In real u achieved your precious dream of yr life. Your story proved it… “Dukhi ko ghar ma matrai timro baash hune vaye, hey Ishwor! daya rakhi malai ajhai dukha deu”.. by Kavi Lekh Nath Paudel. You suffered through like a fairy tale. Your story touched my heart. If it is a real story, I salute that chori & her mum who challenged this world & achieved their precious dream. like a song…. “Jasko nimti sara sansar chodi gaye…” for whom she left all things, he left her for ever. But without…… she suffered her life like a story. She was really a great lady like twinkling star in dark sky in this cruel world. In fact mother is always great. But this real story proved mother is only not great she is the greatest. If I I meet her once, I will salute her & express my feelings without words, without sounds. Everybody should learn from that chori of this story who strived & achieved her U-turn facing with rocks. If the brave chori of this story wrote more…. about her, it will be more interesting. If i write about her, according to my imagination, I think a big book may be created…. pls write next episode too… I hope article like this story… improves this prestigious web site.. rapidly.
–Rohit Khadka, Kathmandu, Nepal
Dear friends….. I comment lately. Your site is excellent. I love it. “My life was like a big wave..” touched my heart. I am impressed from the actress of that real story…. That was a story of a great mother & willing daughter versus cruel world. At last she got U-turn…. like a fairy tale. Other articles are also very very nice. I’ll be with yr group as a well wisher…
–Deewesh Agrawal, Birgunj, Nepal
“My life was like a big wave….” is a story of struggle of a great lady in this entire world… Thanks to this site too…
–Kanchan Ghimire, Dubai, UAE
Hey guys… its really nice site… U guys r going off the hook… Keep it up…. I happened to know about this site just today itself and love the article about MY LIFE WAS LIKE A BIG WAVE….. I must say that the two characters… mother and the daughter both r really brave hearted… I must salute them….
–Julie Thomas, Sydney, Australia
