What do you think when a girl is committed to non-med and same with the boy, will that last long. As I did some homework, I found that 99.9% people break up when their partner are non-med and away from them. It is seen that >99.9% girls want their husband to be medical and 35% boys prefer the non-med wife in the future. 76% people changed their partner during the medical education in the same college, overall break up rate was 90%.
It has been seen that as the time passed by girls tend to be secure and opt for the sr. over their batch mates. The rate of falling in love is 93% in the first month of their medical school and it goes on decreasing by the end of the year. Most of the people need a girl friend or the boy friend. Those are the people who fall in love quickly as soon as they enter medical college and they usually have the multiple partners in the past.
One of the researches done by the psychiatrist has shown that those who fall in love very easily are emotionally weak and can’t take good decision in life or usually their decision becomes worst for them. Is there true love which we spell every time? Do you think those who have fallen in love have got the girl or boy of their dream or it’s just an infatuation?
Its has also been seen that by the end of the medical career usually couples face the problem like CASTE, SOCIETY. It is also difficult to go against the family as they have spent a lot of money on them to get their degree and they just can’t become selfish at the end.
However, 2-3% of the couples have gone against the family, ~ 10-15% couples succeed in convincing their family regarding caste and society, but >56% were unable to convince their family and either they don’t wish to convince that means they might be fade up with the same partner or are very poor in dealing with the family.
The new emerging causes of break up is the career oriented opportunistic personnel, as most the people opt for the US or developed country it is seen that Girls tend to get US based Green card holder husband. But we still don’t know the end of their option. We still don’t know what the future holds for them. It is still a great concern as this thing affect the medical student’s study, 10-15% of the medical students have been seen to attempt suicide and the best preferred method seen is diazepam, though some have tried heavy alcohol consumption. <1% has succeeded in their attempts.
At last; if we happen to have a GF or BF, well it does depends on the individual to individual. Those who are true to their heart and courageous to end their love into a knot yes of course, but on one can’t say how people get changed over the time. Those who claimed to end their love into a happy married live have undergone spontaneous abortion too.
To make a GF:
1. Look for her talent than her beauty, as beauty wanes off over the years but not her knowledge, because today’s era based on the talent.
2. Always compare her interaction and handling things in the practical, theory classes with the house hold activity.
3. Do you think she is the one made for you, despite of your infatuation?
4. Always get an idea from her close circle, just try to know what her close friend talks.
5. Try to get an idea on how people think about her in the college even the staff will tell you what kind of girl she is.
6. Always look for her weakness, bad qualities she has more appropriate for you.
7. But don’t delay too much, Girls are like a domain as soon as you want to have it say ?sorry this domain is not available, here are the other possibilities??
To make a BF:
1. Always look for the talent this is the must part in your BF, because we know that after 10 years he will have a pregnant Tommy and bald head for sure.
2. If your would be BF is more social and more famous in friends circle is more appropriate for you.
3. Always look for multi-talented personality, because today’s era is for multi-talented people.
4. Don’t just tie up with anyone; always think how you would see him after 5-10 years: caring, loving, responsible, and adorable or list you would like to have.
5. Always watch for his activity like how he handles adverse situation in the college like when fighting goes on, when a hot discussion goes on in the class room.
6. Always look for his weakness, bad qualities less he has more appropriate for you.
7. But don’t delay too much, Boys are like a bee if they don’t? find flower around they just fly away in search of it.
– Balkrishna Shah
(Some of the data mention in this article is taken from an open discussion done with the medical student form the three different medical colleges based in Kathmandu.)
The author is a MBBS student at KMC, 7th semester student
